Having been a people manager all my life I have realized that a simple thank you to the team is many a times even bigger than financial emoluments. It is such a motivator for many of us in the corporate world.
The most endearing experience is when your staff come up and says thank you for having guided them either for personal development or career growth.
Here's one I received today from a staff member.... Touching the sky. @MRK. Your support and guidance is bearing fruits now, not only for the team but personal development. You are like a producer behind the scenes, only the artist can be known more than the producer, but the producer produces what make the artist known. We thank you MRK.
These moments of thanking each other are priceless!!
I agree, 'thanks' is many times used quite flippantly, as more an expression of good behaviour and culture, rather than an outpouring from the heart. But still, the mere word thanks when expressed sincerely does wonders to the giver and the receiver.
Although it was never a common Indian practice, this Western import is now more common, at least in urban areas. Whether said casually or with great feeling, it turns us into a more considerate and genteel people. Who can complain?
And yet, often the biggest thanks are the ones best left unsaid, the silence speaking louder than a thousand words. What do you say to someone to whom you owe your very existence? Like someone who saved your life in a near death accident (I am a living example of one who may not have been around but for a faithful friend). Or to your mother who gave you your life in the first place? No words would suffice, and indeed no words were expected.
We have come across many angels in the course of our lives. These experiences have enriched us so much and have left such a deep impression. Some influenced us to change the course of our lives. When we experienced it through a stranger..who has nothing to gain from you…it is etched in our hearts forever.
We have also come across negative instances or people who have also influenced us. At that moment, it is so difficult to give thanks to the situation or the person. It’s only upon reflection, after some time has passed, that we realize that it was meant to be. And mostly for the better. We should also express gratitude for these experience.
The yin and yan…always striking a balance. When we are able to put this “expressing of gratitude” into practice ..will we be in a state of harmony with ourselves and the external world.
Small word but huge effect… I remember recently one of my old student shared a beautiful video thanking me and showing how as a teacher I had changed her life. It was heart touching and really felt so blessed for getting that chance to mentor and guide her and all my students. Thank you Prasanna sir for throwing light on this small word having huge impact in our life.
Thank you for sharing your experience. Very touching indeed. Teachers like you are the true torch bearers who lead the students from ignorance to awareness.
Love this post. Thank you has become so automatic that we forget to experience the gratitude. My yoga class encourages us to experience gratitude on a day to day basis . Gratitude that a prayer was answered, gratitude that your loved ones are safe, gratitude that you have food on the table enough to feed your family and an unexpected guest or even your maid, gratitude when complicated issues magically sort themselves out… . There is no end to this list . I would like to add here that gratitude can be expressed by animals as well. My dogs occasionally do come and rest their heads against me or attempt to shake a paw even without the command to do so, sometimes even a small lick on your hand after a walk or a treat 😊.
A big and heartfelt "thank you" to you, Prasanna, for giving your readers this gem of a weekly bulletin, which is always thought provoking and in which there is always something new to learn or share. Loved this one, picture and all.
The situation at home when you get home and what your wife says if you forget something that she specifically asked you to get reminds me of the joke doing the rounds these days of trying to decipher what your wife means when she says something. If for example she says “Go ahead…” the anchor says don’t ever do it. It’s her dare he says.
Having been a people manager all my life I have realized that a simple thank you to the team is many a times even bigger than financial emoluments. It is such a motivator for many of us in the corporate world.
The most endearing experience is when your staff come up and says thank you for having guided them either for personal development or career growth.
Here's one I received today from a staff member.... Touching the sky. @MRK. Your support and guidance is bearing fruits now, not only for the team but personal development. You are like a producer behind the scenes, only the artist can be known more than the producer, but the producer produces what make the artist known. We thank you MRK.
These moments of thanking each other are priceless!!
Very nice and a real life experience.
I agree, 'thanks' is many times used quite flippantly, as more an expression of good behaviour and culture, rather than an outpouring from the heart. But still, the mere word thanks when expressed sincerely does wonders to the giver and the receiver.
Although it was never a common Indian practice, this Western import is now more common, at least in urban areas. Whether said casually or with great feeling, it turns us into a more considerate and genteel people. Who can complain?
And yet, often the biggest thanks are the ones best left unsaid, the silence speaking louder than a thousand words. What do you say to someone to whom you owe your very existence? Like someone who saved your life in a near death accident (I am a living example of one who may not have been around but for a faithful friend). Or to your mother who gave you your life in the first place? No words would suffice, and indeed no words were expected.
A topic close to my heart Prasanna.
We have come across many angels in the course of our lives. These experiences have enriched us so much and have left such a deep impression. Some influenced us to change the course of our lives. When we experienced it through a stranger..who has nothing to gain from you…it is etched in our hearts forever.
We have also come across negative instances or people who have also influenced us. At that moment, it is so difficult to give thanks to the situation or the person. It’s only upon reflection, after some time has passed, that we realize that it was meant to be. And mostly for the better. We should also express gratitude for these experience.
The yin and yan…always striking a balance. When we are able to put this “expressing of gratitude” into practice ..will we be in a state of harmony with ourselves and the external world.
🙏🏻❤️ With deep gratitude for your words
Dear Michelle, I was delighted read your profound observations. Every word rings true. Thank you for taking time out to share your views.
Small word but huge effect… I remember recently one of my old student shared a beautiful video thanking me and showing how as a teacher I had changed her life. It was heart touching and really felt so blessed for getting that chance to mentor and guide her and all my students. Thank you Prasanna sir for throwing light on this small word having huge impact in our life.
Thank you for sharing your experience. Very touching indeed. Teachers like you are the true torch bearers who lead the students from ignorance to awareness.
Love this post. Thank you has become so automatic that we forget to experience the gratitude. My yoga class encourages us to experience gratitude on a day to day basis . Gratitude that a prayer was answered, gratitude that your loved ones are safe, gratitude that you have food on the table enough to feed your family and an unexpected guest or even your maid, gratitude when complicated issues magically sort themselves out… . There is no end to this list . I would like to add here that gratitude can be expressed by animals as well. My dogs occasionally do come and rest their heads against me or attempt to shake a paw even without the command to do so, sometimes even a small lick on your hand after a walk or a treat 😊.
Excellent ! Every word you say rings true.
A big and heartfelt "thank you" to you, Prasanna, for giving your readers this gem of a weekly bulletin, which is always thought provoking and in which there is always something new to learn or share. Loved this one, picture and all.
Thank you Nisha. Your feedback fuels my thoughts and help me continue writing.
The situation at home when you get home and what your wife says if you forget something that she specifically asked you to get reminds me of the joke doing the rounds these days of trying to decipher what your wife means when she says something. If for example she says “Go ahead…” the anchor says don’t ever do it. It’s her dare he says.
Ha ha! Indeed a mirthful narrative. Thank you.