If one were to draw an analogy in chemistry, no decision, right level of analysis, and excessive analysis would correspond to unsaturation, saturation and super saturation! 😊
Just as super saturation is a waste most often, excessive analysis is also waste. But unlike in super saturation, where u can see it, to see that point of excess isnt easy in decsion making in real life situations.
One needs to make decisions.Even not taking a decision or conscioysly delaying one, is a decision!! That level of excess may be difft from perspective of decision maker n others. Better that the decision maker stops at that level of excess from HIS / HER OWN perspective n not let self be confused by others. And thats taking OWNERSHIP for ones decisions. No paralysis! 😀
Complexity of options slows down the process and criticality/risk of outcome can almost freeze the decision making process. The disruption of the immediate future is uncomfortable as compared to the comfort of 'now'. Slow death goes unnoticed which often leads to postponement of hard decision. In corporate life, I have seen how people have paid a price for the right hard decision and subsequent people in the role have benefitted from it.
In strategic matters it's good to aim aim aim and then shoot. In day to day operations, it's sometimes OK to shoot and then aim!!
I've been an avid reader of your insightful writings for over a year now, and I must say, your creative flow is truly awe-inspiring
"Good Is Better Than Perfect" and "Paralysis by Analysis," resonates with a 40 year old bachelor, who navigates the intricate dance of matrimony with a unique set of criteria. It's a tale that embodies the essence of your wisdom.
In pursuit of a life partner, this 40 year old articulated his expectations succinctly: a blend of beauty, education, professional ambition, and a touch of social reform. Oh, and one unconventional detail—he was determined to marry a widow.
To assist in this quest, his well-intentioned parents and friends diligently presented four prospective matches, each embodying a different combination of his desired traits. The twist of fate, however, led to a series of rejections that left everyone scratching their heads.
The first candidate was highly educated, a widow, and undeniably beautiful—except for one minor detail; she wasn't engaged in the workforce. Rejected.
The second contender, a working professional and a widow, failed to meet the academic standards. Another rejection.
The third, a widow with an impressive educational background and a thriving career, somehow missed the mark in the beauty department. Once again, rejected.
And then there was the fourth, a beautiful, highly qualified, and career-oriented woman—just not a widow. A rejection that left his well-wishers perplexed.
His exasperated friends and well-wishers offered a tongue-in-cheek solution: "Why not marry the fourth girl and leave the responsibility of making her a widow to us?”
Wish you and your family a very happy Deepavali, Mr Prasanna
I am in awe of your free flowing creative juices ever since I started reading it over a year ago. Both “Good Is Better Than Perfect” and “Paralysis by Analysis” both apply to this 40 year old who didn’t marry because he couldn’t find a girl of his choice. Worried that he is already over aged, his parents and friends asked him “Tell us what your expectation are, we will find a suitable girl. He said he is looking for four things in the girl “Beautiful, educated, working profession and he being a social reformer he will only marry a widow.”
They found four girls and asked him to select what suits him. He rejected the first girl: Highly Educated Ok, Widow OK, Beautiful Ok, but not working, rejected
Second Girl: Widow ok, Working Ok, Working Ok, but not highly qualified - rejected.
Third Girl: Widow Ok, Educated Ok, .Working OK, but not beautiful - rejected.
Fourth Girl: Beautiful, Highly Qualified, Working in MNC but not a widow - rejected.
The vexed friend and well wishers said “You first marry the 4th girl and leave the responsibility of making her a widow to us.
I've been an avid reader of your insightful writings for over a year now, and I must say, your creative flow is truly awe-inspiring
"Good Is Better Than Perfect" and "Paralysis by Analysis," resonates with a 40 year old bachelor, who navigates the intricate dance of matrimony with a unique set of criteria. It's a tale that embodies the essence of your wisdom.
In pursuit of a life partner, this 40 year old articulated his expectations succinctly: a blend of beauty, education, professional ambition, and a touch of social reform. Oh, and one unconventional detail—he was determined to marry a widow.
To assist in this quest, his well-intentioned parents and friends diligently presented four prospective matches, each embodying a different combination of his desired traits. The twist of fate, however, led to a series of rejections that left everyone scratching their heads.
The first candidate was highly educated, a widow, and undeniably beautiful—except for one minor detail; she wasn't engaged in the workforce. Rejected.
The second contender, a working professional and a widow, failed to meet the academic standards. Another rejection.
The third, a widow with an impressive educational background and a thriving career, somehow missed the mark in the beauty department. Once again, rejected.
And then there was the fourth, a beautiful, highly qualified, and career-oriented woman—just not a widow. A rejection that left his well-wishers perplexed.
His exasperated friends and well-wishers offered a tongue-in-cheek solution: "Why not marry the fourth girl and leave the responsibility of making her a widow to us?”
On yr Analysis, paralysis, my take...
If one were to draw an analogy in chemistry, no decision, right level of analysis, and excessive analysis would correspond to unsaturation, saturation and super saturation! 😊
Just as super saturation is a waste most often, excessive analysis is also waste. But unlike in super saturation, where u can see it, to see that point of excess isnt easy in decsion making in real life situations.
One needs to make decisions.Even not taking a decision or conscioysly delaying one, is a decision!! That level of excess may be difft from perspective of decision maker n others. Better that the decision maker stops at that level of excess from HIS / HER OWN perspective n not let self be confused by others. And thats taking OWNERSHIP for ones decisions. No paralysis! 😀
Complexity of options slows down the process and criticality/risk of outcome can almost freeze the decision making process. The disruption of the immediate future is uncomfortable as compared to the comfort of 'now'. Slow death goes unnoticed which often leads to postponement of hard decision. In corporate life, I have seen how people have paid a price for the right hard decision and subsequent people in the role have benefitted from it.
In strategic matters it's good to aim aim aim and then shoot. In day to day operations, it's sometimes OK to shoot and then aim!!
Great observations as always
I've been an avid reader of your insightful writings for over a year now, and I must say, your creative flow is truly awe-inspiring
"Good Is Better Than Perfect" and "Paralysis by Analysis," resonates with a 40 year old bachelor, who navigates the intricate dance of matrimony with a unique set of criteria. It's a tale that embodies the essence of your wisdom.
In pursuit of a life partner, this 40 year old articulated his expectations succinctly: a blend of beauty, education, professional ambition, and a touch of social reform. Oh, and one unconventional detail—he was determined to marry a widow.
To assist in this quest, his well-intentioned parents and friends diligently presented four prospective matches, each embodying a different combination of his desired traits. The twist of fate, however, led to a series of rejections that left everyone scratching their heads.
The first candidate was highly educated, a widow, and undeniably beautiful—except for one minor detail; she wasn't engaged in the workforce. Rejected.
The second contender, a working professional and a widow, failed to meet the academic standards. Another rejection.
The third, a widow with an impressive educational background and a thriving career, somehow missed the mark in the beauty department. Once again, rejected.
And then there was the fourth, a beautiful, highly qualified, and career-oriented woman—just not a widow. A rejection that left his well-wishers perplexed.
His exasperated friends and well-wishers offered a tongue-in-cheek solution: "Why not marry the fourth girl and leave the responsibility of making her a widow to us?”
hilarious!!
Thank you. I quite enjoyed reading your comments.
Wish you and your family a very happy Deepavali, Mr Prasanna
I am in awe of your free flowing creative juices ever since I started reading it over a year ago. Both “Good Is Better Than Perfect” and “Paralysis by Analysis” both apply to this 40 year old who didn’t marry because he couldn’t find a girl of his choice. Worried that he is already over aged, his parents and friends asked him “Tell us what your expectation are, we will find a suitable girl. He said he is looking for four things in the girl “Beautiful, educated, working profession and he being a social reformer he will only marry a widow.”
They found four girls and asked him to select what suits him. He rejected the first girl: Highly Educated Ok, Widow OK, Beautiful Ok, but not working, rejected
Second Girl: Widow ok, Working Ok, Working Ok, but not highly qualified - rejected.
Third Girl: Widow Ok, Educated Ok, .Working OK, but not beautiful - rejected.
Fourth Girl: Beautiful, Highly Qualified, Working in MNC but not a widow - rejected.
The vexed friend and well wishers said “You first marry the 4th girl and leave the responsibility of making her a widow to us.
I've been an avid reader of your insightful writings for over a year now, and I must say, your creative flow is truly awe-inspiring
"Good Is Better Than Perfect" and "Paralysis by Analysis," resonates with a 40 year old bachelor, who navigates the intricate dance of matrimony with a unique set of criteria. It's a tale that embodies the essence of your wisdom.
In pursuit of a life partner, this 40 year old articulated his expectations succinctly: a blend of beauty, education, professional ambition, and a touch of social reform. Oh, and one unconventional detail—he was determined to marry a widow.
To assist in this quest, his well-intentioned parents and friends diligently presented four prospective matches, each embodying a different combination of his desired traits. The twist of fate, however, led to a series of rejections that left everyone scratching their heads.
The first candidate was highly educated, a widow, and undeniably beautiful—except for one minor detail; she wasn't engaged in the workforce. Rejected.
The second contender, a working professional and a widow, failed to meet the academic standards. Another rejection.
The third, a widow with an impressive educational background and a thriving career, somehow missed the mark in the beauty department. Once again, rejected.
And then there was the fourth, a beautiful, highly qualified, and career-oriented woman—just not a widow. A rejection that left his well-wishers perplexed.
His exasperated friends and well-wishers offered a tongue-in-cheek solution: "Why not marry the fourth girl and leave the responsibility of making her a widow to us?”
The ever enchanting brew with dollops of humour has been an illuminating lamp for the festival today!!
How you manage it keeps me wondering but sustains me enough and more for the week!
A very joyous and glorious celebration to you and dear Geetha and Prasanna may your tribe proliferate! Bless you both 🙏
Thank you for the generouswords. I heartily reciprocate the festive greetings 🙏