I am reminded of our former PM Vajpayee. He would give such a gap in between his sentences, closing his eyes, the audience was almost tempted to finish off filling in the blanks.
Also commenting on Gunda’s borrowed coat for the ವಧುಪರೀಕ್ಷೆ…. I am reminded of the following….
A man with a huge nose was coming to dine with a family which had a little brat would pass unsavoury comments in the presence of a guest. So he was tutored so much by the parents not to comment on the unseemingly long nose of the said guest & lo he said to the guest while coffee was being served to him…… shall I put some sugar in your NOSE 🤥🤭.
A very useful write up indeed. Particularly for our country, where my frequent advise to young people has been to Tighten the Brain-Tongue Connection. I ask them to visualise picking up a screwdriver and using it to turn this imaginary screw before they speak.
The looseness of this connection results in the frequent “ummms, uhhhs….” that punctuate even our everyday conversations. We are good thinkers, but with a loose connection to the tongue. We will make progress as communicators if we keep this virtual screwdriver handy.
As you near the FC century, your stroke-play remains as fluent as ever, Pras. No nervous nineties. Keep it up!
This was a very interesting read . So many people talk without thinking and face the consequences. All the instances mentioned where one should rein in the tongue ( zabaan ko lagaam do) were spot on . Rash confessions and blunt comments lead to remorse and regret later .
A quote I remember having read long back regarding sharing secrets -
Keep a secret, it’s your slave. Tell it, and it’s your master.
Yes, very well said and thought through article !Think before you ink, look before you leap, put a filter to your mouth before you speak are advice given by many wise people including our parents. Many think it’s a virtue to speak out their hearts when emotionally charged and don’t realise that’s when “ Silence is golden and speech is silver” but alas their outbursts have made them lose many valuable relations and friends ! Thanks for sharing Sir !
Agree Pras! It's a good idea to "aim before one shoots" . "Shoot and then aim" is a recipe for disaster. Having said that being "quick on the draw" is a talent.
Excellent post..😊👍 I remember a Kannada proverb ಮಾತು ಆಡಿದರೆ ಹೋಯಿತು ಮುತ್ತು ಒಡೆದರೆ ಹೋಯ್ತು.
I think as you get older we learn from our mistakes.
Very true
Typo error correction * it is “ pensez avant de parler”
Thank you ಪ್ರಭಾ
Yes. I would put in my French version
Pended avant de parler!
I am reminded of our former PM Vajpayee. He would give such a gap in between his sentences, closing his eyes, the audience was almost tempted to finish off filling in the blanks.
Also commenting on Gunda’s borrowed coat for the ವಧುಪರೀಕ್ಷೆ…. I am reminded of the following….
A man with a huge nose was coming to dine with a family which had a little brat would pass unsavoury comments in the presence of a guest. So he was tutored so much by the parents not to comment on the unseemingly long nose of the said guest & lo he said to the guest while coffee was being served to him…… shall I put some sugar in your NOSE 🤥🤭.
A very useful write up indeed. Particularly for our country, where my frequent advise to young people has been to Tighten the Brain-Tongue Connection. I ask them to visualise picking up a screwdriver and using it to turn this imaginary screw before they speak.
The looseness of this connection results in the frequent “ummms, uhhhs….” that punctuate even our everyday conversations. We are good thinkers, but with a loose connection to the tongue. We will make progress as communicators if we keep this virtual screwdriver handy.
As you near the FC century, your stroke-play remains as fluent as ever, Pras. No nervous nineties. Keep it up!
Thank you Shashi for being profuse in your appreciation of the post
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Thank you very much!!
This was a very interesting read . So many people talk without thinking and face the consequences. All the instances mentioned where one should rein in the tongue ( zabaan ko lagaam do) were spot on . Rash confessions and blunt comments lead to remorse and regret later .
A quote I remember having read long back regarding sharing secrets -
Keep a secret, it’s your slave. Tell it, and it’s your master.
Henry Wilson Allen
Excellent observations. Thank you.
Yes, very well said and thought through article !Think before you ink, look before you leap, put a filter to your mouth before you speak are advice given by many wise people including our parents. Many think it’s a virtue to speak out their hearts when emotionally charged and don’t realise that’s when “ Silence is golden and speech is silver” but alas their outbursts have made them lose many valuable relations and friends ! Thanks for sharing Sir !
Thank you for the insightful comments
Giving people "a piece of one's mind" is a piece too much - one needs all the pieces one has :)
Well said
Agree Pras! It's a good idea to "aim before one shoots" . "Shoot and then aim" is a recipe for disaster. Having said that being "quick on the draw" is a talent.
Cryptic and yet spot on. Thanks TK